Once, I tweeted this 'the best revenge is to look good and be smarter than before', and some women retweeted it because they thought 'hey, it's so me!'


But hey, sorry girls, or women, I was completely wrong and I was completely out of my mind. What's the point in looking good and being smarter, if they're just to attract his attention again, or to break his heart, or to make him realize that you're waaaayyy better than any other girl he's ever dated. Him... him.. him... It means you're still doing it for him. And you give him a privilege of knowing that you're still care. That's why you do all those stupid acts to attract him.

Now I've realized, the best revenge is to really moving on. delete, delete, delete. categorized them as your past. meet some new friends and make love to someone new, without having to push it too hard. It is the best way. And who says you can't be sure about it? you can! Your heart contains the same substance exist in your mind, it was made from the same factory, only that your heart has the most fragile material, when your mind has the most powerful material. You won’t let weaknesses beat you, will you?

Someone said this in a note,

In terms of feeling, there is only black or white, and no such thing is in between. So, when you start to make all those groundbreaking efforts to make that person fall in love with you, that’s the moment when you will soon fail. If they don't fight you today, they are not the person for you tomorrow, next week, or even in the next 15 years despite of anything you wear, or anything you can say and give to them.

When you put logic into your sense of likeliness to someone, you’ll have the power trip any love life can never provide. You will realize, how easy it is to love someone who’s already in love with you, you will embrace how amazing it is not being the one who’s trying too hard all the time, and most of all, you are happy for the things that you already have in your life.

Love who you are, and love those, whom deserve the best inside of you, not those pricks who bring out the awkward-melancholic bastard in you. When one is not that into you, do leave them, depart, MOVE ON; and don't spare the attention, it’s their lost, and it’s your victory.

One day in the near future, I promise you, they will look at you from far and see the real, dazzling, shimmering you, not long after your “departure” from their lives.

And you will. You know you will.

I AM FUCKING MAGICAL

Dear Tio temennya Wita, sekalian diiklanin nih produknya. :p

So, I ordered this "I Am Fucking Magical" tote bag, which I am (HAHAHA, yeah right), yesterday and now I'm waiting for this bag to be delivered to my house. I love the fox, the button-eyes and especially the tagline. They came in six different designs and all of them are cute, and they have two sizes of choice. This is the big one, and the other in slightly smaller size. All in affordable price range. You can have the small one for only IDR 30 k. delicious!

Anyway, I've received the green owl t-shirt today and totally love it!

ahh man, the magic of buying things online. you're just one click away. :D

anyway for Tio's other artworks and amazing designs (from what I heard, he's the official designer for Mocca's merchandise), you can just click here

AAAAAAAAAA!!!!

I AM SOOOO CANNOT WAIT TO LAY MY HANDS ON THIS BOOK!!!


I've told everyone before that I am not really into a foreign chicklit because somehow they're a bit more shallow than ours. What they talk about are guys, sex, guys, sex and it goes on and on until you get boring. If, they turn it into a romantic comedy movie, then it usually be more 'awwww', cuteness. But to read it, it's a complete boredom.

But not with the shopaholic series. I didn't really like the first novel because yeah it was still a complete boredom. A twenty something woman deal with a credit card chaos and then she meets a perfect man and so on and so on and so on (but love the movie anyway). And I remember it clearly like it was yesterday, why then I bought the second book. It's just because I'm bored, I want to read something, but I don't have an idea what a good book to buy. So then I bought 'Shopaholic in Manhattan'. By the time I bought it, they've been releasing 5 books and I just hit the second. Out of my expectation, it was a hilarious book! Once I read it, I can not put it down. So then I bought all four of them right away. Yeah, as a college student, I spend all my money in one blow to get all four of them.

Rebecca Bloomwood not just a woman. But she is the extraordinary one who could think creatively and create a huge jokes in her own life. And I watched her grow from a slob into a smart mother in Shopaholic and Baby. Actually, it disappoint me when I found out that Shopaholic and Baby might be the end of a Shopaholic Series. I've bought other books wrote by Sophie Kinsella eversince but none of them are this great. Until, I found out that Mini Shopaholic now hit the store! Now I get to read how Minnie Brandon doesn't have even the slightest resemblance of her mother and it pissing Becky off. I truly can't wait!!

The bad news is, I've read all of them in Bahasa so I have to buy the latest edition in Bahasa too. It's my own regulation. So, I have to wait a little bit longer to read the translated edition! hope it's not too long then! :D

finally, we've found our way back. :)

Wishing we could choose,
Our own landscape..
Wishing me and you,
Could just go anywhere we wanted.
Once in a blue moon,
We'd stay out late...
And watched the sun come up,
at 5.30 in the morning.

-- Lighthouse Family

:)

a new crush.

Anderson Cooper. CNN Networks. Need I say more?

And FYI, he was there when a genocide took place at Rwanda, killing 800.000 people within 100 days. Yes, he was there. Full media access from CNN allowed him to go around Rwanda along with military squad of the government.

And that silver hair? Shows that he is friggin' smart and yes he is friggin' smart.

yumm!

ta ta ta ra ta ta ta ra ta ta ta :))

Terima Kasih ya untuk inspirasinya,
si pemberi gelang merah,
laki-lakiku yang tampan. :)
22 halaman lohhh! :D
But, no spoiler unfortunately. :))
Nggak mau ngasih bocoran ah.
22 halaman word itu kayanya dikit ya? Coba baca buku, buka sampai halaman 22 pasti masih tipis banget, tapi nulisnya setengah idup lho. Menurunkan scene-by-scene dalam kepala ke dalam lembaran kertas itu ternyata nggak gampang. Ini aja masih merasa kurang detail. :(
Belum lagi nunggu dan nyari inspirasinya. Ah, sebagai pembenci tekhnologi, I thank Bill Gates for Microsoft Word. Kebayang kalo harus tulis tangan kaya William Shakespeare. Bisa gila gua.
Hmm.. bocoran deh sedikit... Nanti malam kita jalan-jalan ke Bandung, inspired by perjalanan semalam Bandung-Jakarta kemarin. Udah, sekian bocorannya. :))

Dilihat-lihat ya, makin kesini blog ini makin menyedihkan lho.
Sepertinya sekarang cuma jadi tempat sampah sekaligus wadah (buaelaaahh wadah) berkomunikasi kita berdua, si makin cinta ketika jarak memisahkan. :))
Within months, kayanya I will definitely shut this down temporarily, sorting the proper posts, baru deh dibuka lagi biar temen-temen bisa baca. (temen-temen? temen-temen sape? temen-temen ghuehh? salah temen-temen ghuehh?? Basi! Madingnya udah mau terbit! *lho*?)

Despite the fact that we are the living prototypes of Def Leppard's song "When Love and Hate Collides", I still need you....
To untie this armlace. :))
Seriously, I have no idea how to tie and untie this thing,
which then resulted I have to take it along when I took a shower,
and... it lost its touch of red, sadly :(
I have a surprise for you, anyway.
See you!! ;P

emang anjing lo.

pardon my french tapi ini lapak pribadi dan terserah gue mau ngomong apa.

hope.

You know what hope is?
Hope,
is a Bastard,
a liar,
a cheat,
and a tease.

Class of 2005, see you next week! :D

Man,

I

Will

Definitely

Kill

You.

I Will.

sukses!

my new favorite song! errr...

She's sliding, she's sliding down to the depth of the world
She's fighting, she's fighting the urge to make sand out of pearls

Heaven can wait and hell's too far ago
Somewhere between what you need and what you know
And they're trying to drive that escalator into the ground 

amit-amit cerita gua jadi kaya gitu... *tok tok tok* *ketok meja 2 rebu juta milyar kali*

:)

smart way to answer my question.

thank you.

what if....

........................

........................


I don't know how, but you have your own way to answer this.

Have you found someone new?

Or have you got back with her?

I got a very bad feeling about this.

Please.

Do tell me the truth.

another first day without you,

and I have to say...

It's quite killing.


Thanks anyway. It's the first movie for Dino. :)

Feist - So Sorry

We're so helpless
We're slaves to our impulses
We're afraid of our emotions
And no one knows where the shore is
We're divided by the ocean
And the only thing I know is
That the answer isn't for us
No the answer isn't for us

We don't need to say goodbye
We don't need to fight and cry
We, we could hold each other tight tonight
Tonight
Tonight
Tonight
Tonight...


:(

Paris Hilton,

you're just never fails me. never.

Screwed

Please don't let it begin
You're under my skin
Same old story
Boys meets girl and she falls much harder than him
Baby, where's the glory

If all night, all night,
you're attention's not mine
Please don't let it begin
You're under my skin
It's a sin cause you're starting to win

Since I'm already screwed
Here's a message to you
My heart's wide open
I'm just not getting through to the lover in you
Yet I'm still hoping
That tonight, tonight, you're gonna turn down the lights
And give me a little more room
just to prove it to you
What do I gotta do?

:)

This song used to be my and kania's favorite song on her album and we used to played it again and again and again while we're singing like crazy! Kania, come back here and let's roll our wild nights again! :Dcuma cewek sirik yang nggak suka sama Paris Hilton. Hahahaha. XOXO xp

"Jangan berhenti sayang sama aku ya."
"Kamu juga."


:)

banyak hal di kepala, yang nggak bisa keluar dari mulutku.

160???

160???
Kenapa harus 160??
Ada apa dengan 150??
Kalian pikir dibalik 150-ku ini, hanya ada secuil otak yang tersembunyi? yang juga kerdil?
Kalian pikir perempuan-perempuan 160 itu pasti pintar? terasosiasi dengan pintar?
Terus??
Itu persyaratan apa?
Supaya apa?
Industri Palsu.
Industri Plastik.

Ibu, kuping kananku sakit banget.... :((