Based On?

Before I go on rambling, I should warn you who care enough to read my blog that this is my blog and I can write whatever I want to. (ciyee berasa banyak yang baca.. But it's a preventive action so i still think the warning's pretty important). The reason is, this blue morning I want to talk some rather personal issue of mine. I want to write it without having to blurt it all out to people but I still don't know how. It's just a short thought but you have to work your ass off to really thinking about it if you have the same thought as mine. If it goes well, you can make your own conclusion, yes??

What is your relationship based on?
If it's love, I have plenty. But Patty Smith says something along the lines of Sometimes Love Just Ain't Enough in one of her songs, and unfortunately I have to agree with her. So, I'm sure love is just the small part of it.
If it's trust, I have... well... none. That's bad remembering some people think trust is a main component for relationship otherwise it won't work. At least it won't work well.
If it's honesty, well I already try to gave my best. But I don't know about the other person. And I think, trust intertwined with honesty to create a healthy and loyal relationship. So how could you trust someone, without honesty in it?
If it's support, then it's awesome.
If it's respect, well I have to work on that one since I lose control everytime I got mad. And I can't treat other people that way. But if I may defend myself, I do that because someone hurt me so bad. if i may not defend myself, then consider me guilty.
If it's sex, well without having so much to say, relationship based on just only sex is the unhealthy one. Agree?
If it's passion. I don't know if it's still like what it used to. Everyone wants to be passionate about everything but we're all just human afterall. We got tired, and we got bored. Damn.

All in all, you don't work on a relationship. If you do, then something must be wrong.